Deb and Marina: Partners in Routt County mentor pair benefit from each other
January 14, 2015
Steamboat Springs — Marina was only 8 when Deb Proper's daughter began mentoring her through Partners in Routt County.
When her daughter left the area two years later, Proper, an advertising consultant at the Steamboat Pilot & Today, decided to carry on the mentorship with Marina, who already felt like part of the family.
"Marina has really changed our lives," Proper said.
The duo is one of 47 currently paired together as part of Partners' One-to-One mentoring program. Another seven pairs meet twice a month for lunch, while another 25 are waiting for mentors, according to Becky Slamal, community outreach coordinator for Partners in Routt County.
Partners is celebrating National Mentoring Month through January while seeking new senior partners, specifically male partners, to match up with kids ages 7 to 17 on the waiting list.
When Proper and Marina meet, which is usually a few times each week, they do homework, go biking, have sleepovers, go camping or just hang out, Proper said.
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Marina said her favorite memory with Proper is a trip to the zoo and aquarium they took on Marina's 10th birthday.
"I had never been to a zoo or aquarium," said Marina, who is now 13 and a seventh-grader at Steamboat Springs Middle School.
Marina said she and Proper like to bake and she enjoys walking Proper's large poodle, Charlie.
Marina said when she's older, she is thinking of going to college, and while she used to want to be a cop, now she'd like to be a singer and dancer.
"I really want to be a singer and do hip-hop dancing," said Marina, who lives with her parents and some of her 12 siblings.
Proper said she enjoys setting a good example for Marina, who she describes as smart, organized and perceptive.
"She's incredibly caring," Proper said. "The most important thing for Marina is letting her know that the world is full of possibilities."
Proper said it's important for Marina to understand her value and what she has to offer.
"It's so important for a kid to know they matter to adults," Proper said. "She needs to know that."